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Pain and Headaches in Children

Pain, including recurring headaches, migraines and ongoing muscle or body aches, can affect children and teenagers just as much as adults. When pain keeps coming back or lasts for a long time, it can interfere with school, sleep, friendships, sport and other activities they enjoy.

Pain is real, even when medical tests don’t reveal a clear cause. Physical factors, stress, emotions, sleep and activity levels can all influence how pain is experienced. This doesn’t mean the pain is imaginary or that a child is causing it.

Treatment for pain disorders in children and teenagers may involve a combination of medical care, physical strategies and psychological support. A psychologist can help young people understand their pain, develop coping skills and feel more confident managing everyday life.

Common Signs of Pain Disorders

Persistent pain can look different from one child to another. Some common signs include:

What you may not be aware of about
pain disorders...

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Pain is real, even when tests are normal. A lack of a clear medical explanation doesn’t mean a child isn’t experiencing genuine pain.

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Stress can influence pain. Worry, tension and poor sleep can affect how intensely pain is experienced, without being its sole cause.

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Pain can affect more than physical health. Ongoing headaches and other pain can influence a young person’s mood, friendships, school attendance and confidence.

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Psychological support can help. Learning practical coping strategies may help children and teenagers manage distress and participate more comfortably in everyday activities.

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What the research says about pain disorders

Ongoing pain is common in children and teenagers. Recurring headaches, migraines, tummy pain and muscle or joint pain are among the most frequent types. The pain is real, even when tests and scans come back normal, and it can affect sleep, school attendance, sport and friendships.

Research now shows that pain is shaped by both the body and the brain. Stress, worry, poor sleep and low mood can turn the volume up on pain, while feeling calm, confident and in control can help turn it down. That is why psychological support is a recognised part of care for children with ongoing pain, alongside their GP or paediatrician.

What the research says about psychological therapy for pain in children

A Cochrane review (Fisher and colleagues, 2018) brought together 47 studies with nearly 2,900 children and teenagers, with an average age of about 12. It looked at face-to-face psychological therapies, including Cognitive Behavioural Therapy (CBT), relaxation training, coping skills training and biofeedback.

  • Headaches: children had fewer headaches straight after therapy, and were less limited by their pain in daily life 3 to 12 months later.
  • Other ongoing pain (such as tummy pain): pain intensity eased after therapy, and children were less limited in their daily activities both straight away and at follow-up.

The review rated the quality of the evidence as low, so more research is needed. Even so, the findings suggest psychological therapy can help children cope better and get back to the things they enjoy.

What psychological support involves

  • Learning how pain, stress and sleep affect each other
  • Relaxation, breathing and other calming skills
  • Pacing activities and gradually returning to school and sport
  • Helping parents respond to pain in ways that build confidence

The bottom line

Medical assessment comes first, so start with your GP or paediatrician. Alongside medical care, psychological support can help children and teenagers manage pain and take part more fully in everyday life.

Tips for managing pain disorders

How to get started

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Get in touch

Call us on 02 9438 2511, email hello@mindboxpsychology.com.au or send us an enquiry. Our reception team will answer your questions.

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We match you with a psychologist

We’ll match you with a clinical psychologist who works with your concern, face-to-face in St Leonards or through online counselling anywhere in Australia.

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Your first session

Your first session is 60 minutes. You don’t need a referral to book, but with a GP Mental Health Treatment Plan and referral you may be eligible for a Medicare rebate.

Picture of Written by Dr Elizabeth Woodcock

Written by Dr Elizabeth Woodcock

Clinical Psychologist, Director of MindBox Psychology

Our Psychologists are highly qualified, with Masters or Doctorate degrees in Clinical Psychology. We provide treatment for pain disorders using Cognitive Behaviour Therapy (CBT), and other evidence-based treatments like Mindfulness and Dialectical Behaviour Therapy (DBT).